I am a romance author. I believe in the power of love. I’m glad I write in a genre that generates hope.
I went on Pinterest to look for ideas about how to be romantic so I could include them in this blog. Oh boy.
OK. Pinterest is a female thing. I’m going to just keep reminding myself of that. Because otherwise my head would probably explode. “Why,” you ask? Because everything I found was what a woman can do for her husband. How she can support him. How she can take care of him and show him her appreciation.
You know what? WOMEN NEED APPRECIATION TOO.
The few pins I tracked down focusing on women were about sex.
Maybe romance, like Pinterest, is a female thing. That’s too bad.
But my findings got me to thinking:
- my husband always used to open the car door for me (remote locks and lugging babies into car seats put an end to that)
- he would peel an orange and offer me pieces (I can’t peel oranges. I have never been able to peel an orange. )
- He has never expected me to have dinner on the table every night. (He does expect there to be food in the house and that I will ensure that happens now that we are empty nesters.)
- When the children were very young, he installed a remote operated light in our back entry so I could use the garage door opener to turn it on when I got home with the children every night.
You might not consider those things to be romantic, but they are all his way of taking care of me. And that’s romantic.